For Priya Parker, author of a book published in September, The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict, the answer is yes. While many people dread conflict, it's not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it's necessary if we want to be in close, authentic relationships, says Parker.
So when you have a moment of misalignment with someone, try thinking of it as a signal. There's something here to talk about. "We assume if the heat is rising, this must be bad.
But the reframe is that there's something relevant here. I should pay attention," she says. Parker, who has been a conflict resolution facilitator for 20 years, shares advice about common questions you may have about getting into fights — whether that's with a partner, a family member or a friend.
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